Nowadays,the problem of generation gap becomes more and more serious. Based on the survey by our school, the poor relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or,do the harsh family rules affect their relationship?
Firstly, in most of the families in the US, both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to proveide better environment for their lovely children. Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and their children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other, then friction is easy to appear. Therefore, a wide generation gap comes into being.
Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolute obedient to them is also one of the grave causes of generation gap between them. Therefore, these children are not willing to communicate with their parents and most of these parents are not active to talk with their children. Thus, misunderstanding between them often occurs.
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children actively so as to improve their relationship. At the same time, they can also observe their children's behavior in order to understand their children's personality and reduce the quarrel betweeen them.
Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family to give a better image to their children since it can make their children feel free to chat with their parents. Then it is easy for the parents to approach their lovely children. Therefore, a close and harmonious relationship between parents and children appears.
In conclusion, to have a close relationship between parents and children, the parents should devote their leisure time to talking with their children and observing their childern's personality and give their children the approaching images. If so, this terrible phenomenon, generation gap, cannot occur any more.
如今,代溝的問題越來越嚴(yán)重。中氣我們的學(xué)校的調(diào)查,父母與子女之間的關(guān)系不好很常見。這些問題是由忙碌的父母造成的?或者是嚴(yán)厲的家規(guī)影響他們的關(guān)系嗎?
首先,在美國大多數(shù)的家庭中,父母雙方都外出工作以賺取更多的錢來為他們可愛的孩子提供更好的環(huán)境。不幸的是,這導(dǎo)致他們和孩子之間很少有溝通,因?yàn)檫@些父母總是在閑暇時(shí)間休息。這些家長和孩子不能彼此深入了解,然后容易出現(xiàn)摩擦。因此,一個(gè)寬大的代溝就產(chǎn)生了。
其次,家長要孩子要絕對服從于他們也是他們之間產(chǎn)生代溝嚴(yán)重的原因。因此,這些孩子都不愿意與父母以及大多數(shù)的父母都不主動(dòng)跟孩子溝通。因此,他們之間會(huì)經(jīng)常發(fā)生誤會(huì)。
為了解決這個(gè)問題,忙碌的父母應(yīng)該放棄自己的業(yè)余時(shí)間和他們的孩子積極溝通以改善與他們的關(guān)系。同時(shí),也可以為觀察孩子的行為,要了解孩子的個(gè)性和減少與他們之間的爭吵。
除此之外,父母應(yīng)盡量放棄在家中的絕對權(quán)利,給的孩子樹立一個(gè)更好的形象,因?yàn)樗梢允购⒆痈械阶杂膳c父母聊天。然后父母可以很容易地接近他們的可愛的孩子們。因此,親密融洽的關(guān)系在家長和孩子之間出現(xiàn)。
總之,父母和孩子之間要有親密的關(guān)系,家長應(yīng)該把閑暇時(shí)間給他們的孩子,觀察孩子的個(gè)性以及給孩子平易近人的形象。如果這樣的話,這個(gè)可怕的現(xiàn)象,代溝,就不會(huì)再發(fā)生了。
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